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I feel we Wives looking sex tonight Marks like two friends living together and looking after two small children. There is no intimacy at all. It has been about 5 months now since we Wives looking sex tonight Marks had sex and the longer it goes on the more isolated and lonely I feel. Don't know what to do. I'm sure Fuck me in Kennebunkport you went outside your marriage for sex, yes you would get that pleasure but at what cost I loooking you good luck, don't blame yourself though, I'm sure she still loves you but has just forgotten how to get that feeling back ,so give her a few reminders.

You sound like a really kind and caring person who really is unsure what the best thing to do is. I can only share my story. I am only oloking realising how hard it has been for my husband over our 22 year marriage. I love him now more than ever but I found things so hard when we had children - through absolutely no fault of his. My love for him never waned. Wives looking sex tonight Marks did not want him to touch me. There's a million reasons for this, the majority of which coming from me.

I was resentful that his life hadn't changed much, but mine did. His career started to take off and mine had become terribly stagnant - it was my choice to stay at home and Marjs return to work on a part time basis. I don't regret Lonely wives looking casual sex Kamuela of those decisions.

I kind of felt used because I felt like I was doing something for someone else all day. I lost enjoyment in everything. And Horny moms United States, years later depression was diagnosed and things are so much better now. I also read The 5 Love Languages which helped me realise that how I expressed my love for him was different to how he expressed his love for me. He read the book too. So in our case - it was no-one's fault.

We just became more aware of what was truly going on, sought professional help, didn't give up on each other and learnt to share things that we really enjoyed together. Good luck Steven1. The real world of marriage is the one you create - whatever that turns out to be.

Have you tried pampering your wife and making her feel like a princess? Is there any one who could take the children for a half day Wives looking sex tonight Marks you can have the time together? My husband has totally repelled me from his life and does not like any physical touch at all. It has shattered my heart to think our marriage has come to this, so I do understand a bit about how you are feeling. I stumbled across your post and am so glad I Wives looking sex tonight Marks.

You are definitely not alone! My husband is in the same boat as you and I am in a similar position to your wife though we only have an 18 month old boy at this stage. We are the same age as you Swingers in winchendon massachusetts have been married for 10 years, together for The similarities were kind of freaky as I read through your original post. I had to finish reading it to make sure Wives looking sex tonight Marks wasn't my husband posting this!

I feel really sorry for you, just as I do for looklng husband. I don't have answers, but am hoping that by sharing my thoughts you might get the same kind of insight into sed wife's perspective as I got into my husband's perspective through reading your post.

I gather that in the last 5 months that you haven't had sex your wife has been heavily pregnant and in the postnatal period. IWves can say that it gets pretty uncomfortable at the end of pregnancy, apart from how absolutely exhausted she must be feeling chasing a toddler and now caring for a newborn as well. I can imagine your frustration, but she needs your support, understanding and patience to get her through this time with her sanity intact.

Wives looking sex tonight Marks husband is a fantastic support and gets up at night, shares chores whenever he's home etc. We probably had sex once or twice a month in that time and have only just started stepping it up further because Looking for asian adult swingers burns knew how important it was in a relationship, not because I ever felt like it.

I want to say that I absolutely love him and am so grateful that he is the father of my child, but I just don't feel like having sex Wives looking sex tonight Marks of the time Markks I've had Wives looking sex tonight Marks baby. We don't Wives looking sex tonight Marks time for it in the morning before our baby wakes up and by the time we get around to it at night I'm usually too exhausted and just want Casual encounters Itu crawl into bed to SLEEP.

I find it hard to get myself in the mood because I'm just thinking about how soon I can get to bed and Wives looking sex tonight Marks I need to do to make that happen. I don't feel like being physically active when I'm that tired and I have constant lists running through my head about all Wies things I have to do as a mother and 'house keeper'. Being Wives looking sex tonight Marks mother in the early years can be all consuming and it's really lookin to switch from being 'mum' to 'wife' and especially 'lover'.

I'm not justifying it and I think if it goes on too long it will Wves extremely detrimental to the relationship, but I'm trying to explain how it feels to be wanted in so many different ways physical, emotional, sexual, practical by different people.

Your 'me time' becomes showering and going to the toilet with the door closed if you're lucky! I totally understand you feeling like you are just house mates looking after your kids because I often feel the same way. I just wasn't sure what to do about it because I really felt like the problem was with me. I wanted to change the dynamic and bring the romance back, but Marms honestly just didn't like him touching me, kissing me or giving me any physical affection.

The exception was hugging, and especially snuggling in lookiny at night. This brought me comfort and helped me feel safe and loved without the pressure of Single ladies Sioux City co or romance. So much of it is all in my head and I am trying really hard to work on myself and just do the physical affection thing sometimes, even when I don't feel like it.

I have a suspicion that my low libido could also be hormone related as a result of all the hormones of pregnancy, breastfeeding etc. I spoke to my mother's group about this and many of them said they are too tired and hardly ever do it.

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One couple has started having sex as soon as they put their baby to bed at night so they are not too tired. I'm going to try that next.

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Another said that she doesn't miss sex unless they are having it regularly to begin with. I can definitely relate as I generally enjoy sex and never regret having it, but it's still not enough sec make me want it the next time without lookking convincing myself that I Wives looking sex tonight Marks enjoy it. Lots of us also found that sex was a bit uncomfortable Lady wants casual sex New Oxford having a baby and it took a long time to get better largely hormone related.

I will be talking to my GP about that too, though it's definitely better Wives looking sex tonight Marks than the first 6 months or so after birth. She probably knows it's a problem and probably feels really bad about it like I do, but there are so many demands of her at this stage, she might not have anything left in the tank for you at the end of the day, other than being civil and practically helping each other.

It won't last forever or be an excuse forever, but can I reiterate that she needs your patience, comfort Black man seeks white love affirmation you are likely the only one in a position to comment on how good a job she is doing and your supportive words mean a lot at this time. I think talking to a counsellor is a great idea for Wives looking sex tonight Marks and hopefully they can give you some ideas about how you could approach this with your wife, and when the time might be right to do that, and what you could change about yourself in the meantime though not blaming you at all.

I really hope Wives looking sex tonight Marks you find a Wives looking sex tonight Marks who can listen and offer some advice. It can be hard to find one who suits you, but it's definitely worth giving it a go. I hope this has been helpful and I will let you know if I think Wives looking sex tonight Marks anything else that might be useful to know. Hang in there and definitely don't have an affair in the meantime can't believe people even suggested that!

It is great you have started this thread, many will benefit. I don't have more to say except, I know exactly how you are feeling, I have experienced the same thing.

It's a bit of a roller coaster, am I worthy, has she stopped loving me, it is a challenge to find some compromise. One thing I have learnt, you cannot control anyone else, only your self. In my case my partner had several events and mental health issues Milf sex Cincinnati combined to turn her off sex. So essentially, I'm not going to pressure a unwell person to do it, that would be very wrong.

So it has become a personal challenge, to be happy to be with my partner, without much sex.

Wives looking sex tonight Marks It's not her fault and it's not mine. I have had to take a look at myself to know that I am desirable and I constantly have to ensure I Wives looking sex tonight Marks doing the things that I know are right, like all the other forms of intimacy, without any expectation. It's not easy but you have to stay true to yourself.

Try and shift your focus to the things that your wife will do, reassign some importance and value to these things. Thankyou so much for your posts Alice in Wonderland. You have given me Wives looking sex tonight Marks really good insight into the female perspective. I think that my wife is feeling very much the same way.

I know she is definitely exhausted and has no time or energy for sex. What I need to do is to find a way of not beating Fuck girls in Orlando up about it! I feel very guilty at the moment about everything. For example, yesterday was mother's day and I really wanted to spoil my wife and have a nice day together and as a family but it didn't happen.

They do it we do it do you want it had to work I am a shift worker and Wives looking sex tonight Marks weekends and all kinds of hours.

Yesterday I started work at in the morning so I was up at 5am. Didn't get to get her brekky in bed or anything like that. Worked until half past one then had to swing by and see my own mother for mother's day. It was 4pm by the time I got home. We had planned to go to Fremantle for dinner and take the kids to the park but she was too tired and said it was too late.

Then we planned to have a picnic at a local park but they were burning off yesterday and it was smoked out so we ended Wives looking sex tonight Marks staying home and having takeaway. It was such an ordinary day. And I blamed myself for it. By 8pm she had gone to bed. Think that answers your post Mrs Dools.

It certainly wasn't the day I had in mind. I try and be as supportive and helpful as I can but feel guilty even going to work and leaving her. I know someone has to work and earn an income but I feel like she needs me at home to cope. I do a lot of housework - dishes, vacuuming, washing, the gardens, pool the pets and help with the kids. But I still feel like it isn't enough. We have had a few cuddles and kisses but I certainly don't make it sexual or put any pressure on her.

I am Casual sex in Paterson sensitive, even though it may sound like all I care about is sex. That is not the case. Jacko thanks for your post too. Haven't seen the counsellor yet. Which reminds me - I might ring and make an appointment.

I think a professional's perspective might really help. Hi Steve. You poor thing. You had it all planned so pooking then everything that could go wrong, did. Talk Mqrks Murphy's Law. I'm sure your wife doesn't blame ,ooking, if she Wives looking sex tonight Marks 'lash' out, it's probably just that she's worn out and needs to 'vent' and you just happened to be there. My hubby was a shift worker too, so my heart goes out Wives looking sex tonight Marks you. Could your or her mum help out with the kids, or won't they stay with anyone but you and mum.

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Kids can be 'clingy' at such a young age. Try not to feel guilty about circumstances beyond your control. I'm a great believer that when things are meant to be, they'll be without any 'force', for lack of another word, on our part. Some day you'll look back on these days and say Wives looking sex tonight Marks when'.

If your wife wants to cry I believe in love and Mesa sheer frustration and tiredness, you're right to 'be there' and try to let her know she's loved.

You're a warm, supportive husband. I'm sure she knows and appreciates this. Even if she doesn't seem to acknowledge it, I know one day, she will. I'm hoping Wives looking sex tonight Marks wife will appreciate it even if it is not happening on the dedicated "Mother's Day". My husband worked shift work hours for decades so I know that can be disruptive to a "normal" life style.

Try to zex another occasion a special day. Steven1, wow that was like reading about my own situation. Like you, I understand the stresses that she is under, but it is so difficult when your needs are being placed on the waiting list. As you said, it's not so much the sexual activity, it's that need to feel desired. I'm glad Wives looking sex tonight Marks signed up, because if nothing else your story has made me realise that I'm not the only one going through that mental torment.

It's a difficult road but we're not alone, without knowing you or your wife, one suggestion I have, as difficult as it may be, is tell Wives looking sex tonight Marks this is something you need. Pick a movie tonight you're like me then all of the other suggestions that have been made are things you just naturally do.

Good luck with the counselling, maybe once you've been a couple times you can get your wife to join you. Thanks LostNotFound. And thanks to everyone that has posted. Has been good having you all here and Wives looking sex tonight Marks able to vent to people who understand and are supportive. I had another talk Wives looking sex tonight Marks my wife the other night while we were in bed.

I did tell her that sex was important to me and not just Wives looking sex tonight Marks the act of it but nothing has changed. We still have opportunities come up with alone time and I think about sex but I can Wives looking sex tonight Marks she isn't thinking about it.

She gets on facebook or goes online eex or researches baby stuff or plays with her phone. We kissed passionately the other day and Mae new Macae porn told her I missed her and wanted tomight. But when the kids went to bed she didn't do anything. I have given up initiating anything now because I don't want to be seen as desperate. I only want it if she does. I am booked in to see the counsellor on Wednesday. I am not expecting any ground breaking suggestions or advice but I just want to get it all off my chest and have someone India big girl seeks workout buddy listen.

My biggest criticism of counsellors in the past is that they don't listen. I think the fact she's not given any timeline for sex or much of an explanation is a sign there might be some relationship issues at play.

I think it's really good you are working on the communication side of things by raising the sex Wkves with her, that is a difficult talk to have. I wonder though, perhaps you could start with neutral topics like the weather, news and your and her day instead? Marjs in a while when you're a bit more reconnected, it might be natural to talk about heavier issues like how she is feeling emotionally, and sex.

I wonder how your wife felt about this? Her comment Markks it was "too Wives looking sex tonight Marks for dinner makes me wonder. I also wonder whether she might not have realised your plans for mother's day and needed to see something more concrete happen - for example, did you buy her some nice breakfast ingredients beforehand given you couldn't make her breakfast? Had you already bought and packed the picnic ingredients? Did you buy her flowers or a gift? I might be off the mark here but I just think its sometimes to easy to Makrs things and it might be worth looking at the basics of your relationship first.

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Thanks for your post. You make some good points there. I agree with you that we do have some relationship issues. I think there sez a lot that is not being said by my wife. We do talk about everyday things like how sdx day is and the weather so I'm not sure what you are getting at there. We don't walk around Wives looking sex tonight Marks talking to one another. In regards to mothers day you tomight right in saying I wasn't the best prepared.

And I'm not very romantic Wivves I'm guessing that didn't go down well. I'm not making excuses but with my depression I sexx found it very difficult to plan things and get organised. I should Ladies seeking sex tonight Belcourt North Dakota put a lot more effort in than I did.

I feel very guilty about seeing my mum too. My parents expected me to see mum on mothers day and they live close to where I work.

Wives looking sex tonight Marks half an hour drive plus from home and that is why I went there first. In hindsight I probably shouldn't have done that. I got really stressed in the lead up to mothers day with working out how I was going to juggle work, visiting my mum and spending time with my wife.

I find it hard saying no and being assertive but I really should have nicely said to my parents I couldn't make it on mothers day. Thanks again for your post. Gives me a few things to think about lookinng raise Wives looking sex tonight Marks the counsellor tmrw too.

I may Horny women in Randall Place, MS apologize somehow to my wife tonight. I didn't mean to suggest you don't walk around not talking at all although it's not so easy with kids around. Just that it seems she might not be talking so much about the things tojight are bothering her and that it might benefit to try and create more opportunities to generally talk more to see if that helps get things out.

If it helps you to know, the Mother's Day mother Women wants real sex Richey wife dilemma plays out in a lot of households I think, so you are not alone in trying to balance it! I think it's not easy to say no to parents because we do tend to assume their requests are reasonable because we believe Wives looking sex tonight Marks always out their children first and would never act selfishly.

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And this is when the cracks in the edifice begin to appear. My husband and I have been together 15 years this winter. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect him for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere.

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Then come back and ask again. If something bothers you in the relationship, you must Wives looking sex tonight Marks willing to say it. Saying it builds trust and trust builds intimacy. It may hurt, but you still need to do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you. Nor should anyone else. Behind respect, trust was the most commonly mentioned trait for a healthy relationship.

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Understand that it is up to you to make yourself happy, it is NOT the job of your spouse. Figure out as individuals what makes you happy as an individual, be happy yourself, then you each bring that to Wives looking sex tonight Marks relationship.

You are supposed to keep the relationship happy by consistently sacrificing yourself for your partner and their wants and needs. There is some truth to that. Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times. Just read that again. That sounds horrible. Keyword here: This is the person you chose. It will only backfire and make you both miserable.

Have the courage to be who you are, and most importantly, let your partner be who they Hot lady looking nsa Westminster. Those are the two people who fell in love with each other in the first place.

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Among the emails, one of the most popular themes was the importance of creating space and separation from one another. People sung the praises of separate checking accounts, separate credit cards, having different friends and hobbies, taking separate vacations from one another each year this has been a big one in my own relationship. Some even went so far as to recommend separate bathrooms or even separate bedrooms.

Some people are afraid to give their partner freedom and independence. Going on seventeen years. Wives looking sex tonight Marks me nuts when I see women not let their husbands go out with the guys or are Wives looking sex tonight Marks of other women. Over the course of 20 years we both have changed tremendously. We Wives looking sex tonight Marks changed faiths, political parties, numerous hair colors and styles, but we love each other and possibly even more.

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And the biggest thing that Wives looking sex tonight Marks us strong is not giving a fuck about what anyone else says about our relationship. I can get on board with that.

Amazingly, these couples survived because their respect looking each other allowed them to adapt and allow each person to continue to flourish and grow. You know who they are today, but you have no idea who this person is going to be in five years, ten years, and so on. You have to be prepared for the unexpected, and truly ask yourself if you admire this person regardless of the superficial or not-so-superficial details, because I promise almost all of them at some point are going to either change or go away.

Markd fact, at times, it will be seex soul-destroying. The relationship is a living, breathing thing. Much like the body and muscles, it cannot get stronger without stress and challenge. You have to fight. You have to hash Makrs out. Obstacles make the marriage. John Gottman is a hot-shit psychologist and Wives looking sex tonight Marks who has spent over 30 years analyzing married couples and looking for keys to why they stick together and why they looikng up.

What Gottman does is aMrks gets Wives looking sex tonight Marks couples in a room, puts some cameras on them, and then he asks them to have a fight. He asks them to fight.

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They are:. The reader emails back this up as well. But all of this takes for granted looking important point: Be willing to have the fights.

Say the ugly things and get it all out in the open. This was a constant theme Xxx six girls the divorced readers. Dozens hundreds? There were times when I saw huge red flags.

Instead of trying to figure out what oloking the world was wrong, I just plowed ahead. And instead of saying something, I ignored Wives looking sex tonight Marks of the signals. When you end up being right about something—shut up. You can be right and be quiet at the same time.

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Compromise is bullshit, looklng it leaves both sides unsatisfied, losing little pieces of themselves in Wives looking sex tonight Marks effort to get along. Conflict becomes much easier to navigate because you see more of the context. A similar concept seems to be true in relationships: But how do you get good at forgiving? What does that actually mean? Again, some advice from the readers:. And tnoight, pick your battles wisely.

One piece of advice that comes to mind: Some things matter, worth getting upset about. Most do not. Like Chinese water torture: Is it worth the cost of arguing? Eventually your kids tonighh up, your obnoxious brother-in-law will join a monastery and your parents will die.

You got it… Mr. You and your partner need to be the eye of the hurricane. They add up. Even cleaning up when you accidentally pee on the toilet seat seriously, someone said that —these things all matter and add up over the long run.

This tinight to become particularly important once kids enter the picture. The big message I heard hundreds of times about kids: Children are worshipped in our culture these days. Parents are expected to sacrifice everything for them.

But Wives looking sex tonight Marks best way to raise healthy and happy kids is to maintain a healthy and Bejou-MN online sex marriage. A good marriage makes good kids. So keep your marriage the top priority. Make Wives looking sex tonight Marks for it. And you know how you know if you or her are slipping? Sex starts to slide.

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To my surprised adolescent srx mind, it was actually possible to have sex available to you yet not want it. It was almost as if sex was connected to emotions! For a dumb year-old, this was a complete shocker.

That was the first time I Mature adult nsa in Davenport a truth about relationships: If the relationship is good, the sex will be good. You both will be wanting it and enjoying it. When the relationship is bad—when there are unresolved problems and unaddressed negative emotions—then the sex will often be the first thing to go out the window.

This was reiterated to me hundreds of times in the emails. The nature of the sex itself varied Wives looking sex tonight Marks a Great day for a movie Ottawa date among couples—some couples Wives looking sex tonight Marks sexual experimentation seriously, others are staunch believers in frequency, others get way into fantasies—but the underlying principle was the same everywhere: But sex not only keeps the relationship healthy, many readers suggested that they use it to heal their relationships.

That when things are a bit frigid between them or that they have some Wives looking sex tonight Marks going on, a lot of stress, or other issues i. A few people even said that when things start to feel stale in the relationship, they agree to have sex every day for a week.

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